
Trauma isn’t the end of your story …
Healing is the beginning
Trauma-Informed
Coaching
Find healing from betrayal trauma, domestic abuse, or difficult marital issues through the restorative love of Christ.
I journey with women as they move from the pain of trauma and betrayal and back into their true selves.
Traveling together, I help them recapture their unique talents, strengths, boundaries, and God-given dignity. Touching the hem of God's robe (Matt. 9:21), we navigate the Christ-centered journey toward healing and restoration.

“If you are what you ought to be, you will light a fire in all the world!"
— St. Catherine of Siena
Jenny duBay
Trauma-Informed Coach
Using Biblical inspiration as well as the wisdom of the medieval mystics, my trauma-informed spiritual coaching ministry helps Christian women move forward, enabling them to progress from where they currently are to where they ideally envision themselves to be.
In the words of St. Catherine of Siena, "If you are what you ought to be, you will light a fire in all the world!"
As a certified Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, Deconstructing Gaslighting Specialist, and Trauma-Informed Christian coach, I know what a huge emotional, spiritual, physical and psychological impact intimate and complex trauma can have on a person. My journey in this field began with personal experience and includes the lessons and insights I’ve gained both personally and professionally as I’ve traveled the path to healing and inner reintegration.
My mission is to help women gain clarity and understanding, to reclaim their true selves, made in God’s image and likeness, and touch the hem of God’s robe.
You Don’t Have to Heal Alone
We've all known loss and trauma in our lives. In this fallen world, it's unavoidable. Whether our tragedy is a result of violence, betrayal, physical ailments, loss of loved ones, or for any other reason, these traumas leave us stunned and suffering. God never promised we wouldn't have trials and even heart-wrenching sufferings in our lives -- but He has promised to walk with us during these difficult times.
We have to allow His graces to flow through us by reaching out, by touching the hem of His robe, by asking for-- and being open to--receiving His love. Only Jesus can staunch the bleeding out of our wounds. Only He can bring us back to life.
I invite you to read more about my ministry, my work with trauma survivors, and my own personal journey from tragedy to triumph. If you have any questions or want to reach out to me, please contact me. I'd love to hear from you.
Training & Qualifications
Rooted in theology. Grounded in trauma-informed care. Focused on healing.
Trauma-Informed Coaching & Mental Health
ICF & CPD Certified Somatic Trauma-Informed Life Coach, The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology (Caroline Strawson)
CPD Certified Narcissistic Trauma-Informed Coaching Specialist, The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology
Narcissistic Abuse Specialist, The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology
CDP & CMA Accredited Certification in Borderline Personality Awareness, Centre of Excellence
C-DGS Specialist in Deconstructing Gaslighting Certification
IFS (Internal Family Systems) Trained Life Coach
Wellness & Nutrition
Certified Wellness Coach
Certified Nutrition Coach (Both through the American College of Healthcare Sciences)
Certified Wellness Consultant and Christian Life Coach
Domestic Abuse & Advocacy
Violence and Abuse in Catholic & Christian Families, Pax in Familia
Breaking the Code: Understanding the Different Motives of Those Who Batter, Family Peace Initiative
Domestic Abuse Support Group Facilitator, Hope’s Garden
Family of Origin Abuse & Marriages in Recovery Facilitator, Hope’s Garden
Co-Facilitator, Roses of Tepeyac peer support group, Hope’s Garden
Affiliated with Catholics for Family Peace
Writing, Speaking & Ministry
Founder of Create Soul Space, a resource and community for survivors of domestic abuse
Author of The Prodigal Parishioner, Create Soul Space, and multiple books (published & forthcoming)
Publisher of The Prodigal Parishioner and Create Soul Space newsletters
Contributor to Missio Dei, Hope's Garden, and other publications
Writer and speaker for a variety of media outlets
Faith & Theology
BA in Catholic Theology, Catholic Distance University in conjunction with Holy Apostles College & Seminary
Certified in Christian Prayer, Institute of Catholic Culture
Certified in Classics in Prayer and the Spiritual Life, Catholic Distance University
Please Note
I provide coaching services for those who are in a safe place (not in physical harm) and are seeking to heal from abuse and trauma. If theres’s physical abuse present, I highly recommend local professional help from a domestic abuse shelter or other professional resources.
My area of expertise is with female clients, so in order to provide the best service to everyone, I don't accept male clients. If you're a man in need of trusted, Catholic coaching, I highly recommend contacting my colleague, Bernhard Streisselberger of Streisselberger Coaching & Consulting.
About Bernhard:
"I have been working with abuse victims for more than 10 years -- in private practice as well as in different retreat settings. In the recent three years I have immersed myself in the studies of narcissistic abuse. I was able to help raise awareness about this form of emotional/spiritual violence, teach my clients on how to protect themselves, receive healing and regain their unique God given dignity."